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Resolving Interpersonal Conflict

I remember watching a movie, The Shawshank Redemption, which is about a man wrongly accused of murdering his wife, and his life in prison. In the movie, the main character, Andy Dufresne  helped the Warden launder money through the prison, and when there was proof that Andy Dufresne did not kill his wife, Andy went to talk to the Warden, asking him to appeal to the court to reopen the case, so that he could be released. The Warden as we would expect does not permit it, and gets mad at Andy. This sparks an argument between both of them and ends with the Warden putting Andy in solitary confinement. In this conflict, the main problem is that Andy wants to be released from prison, but the Warden needs Andy in prison to continue his money laundering business. How Andy probably felt at that moment was hopeful at first, that he might be released, then angry at how unfair the Warden was to him. As for the Warden, he was probably feeling afraid, thinking about what could happen should Andy le